Sometimes when you book a boudoir session, it begins as a gift for a significant other, and it ends up being a transformative experience, allowing you to express your sexuality in ways you may not have felt comfortable with in the past. This particular client, who shall remain anonymous (shall we call her Miss Anonymous?), had just left a bad relationship, and recently began a new one with a partner she felt she could finally be free around. If you have ever left a toxic relationship, you know how freeing it is, finally being able to do what you want and be who you want.
As women, we are told that our value lies in our physical appearance and sexuality, yet we are also told to be ashamed of our physical appearance and sexuality. We are told that if our physical appearance or sexual behavior deviates too far from the thin layer of what is acceptable, that we are no longer desirable, and this is simply not true.
When we are with a partner that does not appreciate our physical appearance, or downright criticizes it, we are left wondering if we are beautiful. When he or she does not reciprocate or understand our desires, we are left wondering if we are even desirable. The answer is a resounding YES.
Part of my goal during boudoir sessions is to help you let go of any expectations or shame that you may be carrying surrounding your physical appearance or your sexuality, and you help you feel confident about who you are, and maybe even help you experiment with who you want to be.
Thank you, Miss Anonymous, for trusting me with your photos. It was truly a pleasure watching you evolve during your session from beautiful and feminine to powerful and fierce.